Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2017 1:56 pm Post subject: deception at FH
Dear Mike,
I have been meaning to have chance to talk to you about what is going on at FH ever since I got kicked out.
I would like to talk to you about it face to face since you say you are a Christian.
There are too many things going on there that it should not be disregarded.
I got blamed for many things that it did not happen, and no one including you, did not seem to care.
I am not interested in charging anyone but this need to be talked out.
Please give me a call.
My number 210-945-0970
Sincerely, hitomi wilde
PS, I have decided to do this because I got treated coldly at FH when I visited there by most of them including volunteers. They liked my work and liked me a lot. I was flabbergasted how they changed..
Only Jack and his wife treated me kindly.
Have you checked how many hours I dedicated there? Do you know what I did there? I was there less than a year and I dedicated many, many hours, even cold and rainy days. And I know not too many know this because I worked when people are not there like holidays, weekend and early in the morning.
Ms Inge and some staff focused on what I did wrong but not pay attention to what I did right. And some are outright false accusation. _________________ YHWH is my God and Jesus is my Lord
Last edited by joyful on Sun Oct 22, 2017 12:13 pm; edited 1 time in total
Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2017 10:14 am Post subject: Re: deception at FH
[quote="joyful"]Dear Mike,
I have been meaning to have chance to talk about what is going on at FH ever since I got kicked out.
I would like to talk to you face to face since you say you are a Christian and so am I.
There are too many things going on there that it should not be disregarded in my opinion.
I got blamed for many things that it did not happen, and no one including you, did not seem to care.
I am not interested in charging anyone but this need to be talked out.
Please give me a call.
My number 210-945-0970
Sincerely, hitomi wilde
PS, I have decided to do this because I got treated coldly at FH when I visited there by most of them including volunteers. They liked my work and liked me a lot. I was flabbergasted how they changed..
Only Jack and his wife treated me kindly and warmly.
Have you checked how many hours I dedicated there? Do you know what I did there? I was there less than a year and I dedicated many, many hours, even cold and rainy days. One day , it was so cold that I could not stay out for more than 30 minutes and I asked residents to lend me a tick socks but he offered to give me a worm shoes instead. But I said socks will be fine. He gave me a brand new two pair of socks. It was around Christmas time.
What I did that time was picking up pine tree trash. It was mainly in front of the other building, faced pavilion. That building's trash was neglected most of the time. I know it is FH responsibility. I did it when it is bad anyway. I know it is not my responsibility but when I see ugly trash, I cleaned up anywhere when I am there.
The most neglected area was behind and under bushes. After I trimmed them, it kept clean. It was cesspool of mosquitoes. No, I did not asked Inge if I could do it. It seems that bothered her mostly. I could not do much if I asked her permission to do stuff because there were too many.
There are so many things that no one seem to pay attention to clean up. I took time to clean up when I saw it.
There are many residence and visitors commented how nice it is, and encouraged me kindly.
Those encouraging word kept me going more and more.
And I know not too many know this because I worked when people are not there like holidays, weekend and early in the morning most of the time.
Cleaning up was most of my time there.
And Inge did not bother to ask me what I have been doing, not even once.
I can go on and on what was going on.
Ms Inge and some staff focused on what I did wrong but not paying attention to what I did right. And some are outright false accusation. _________________ YHWH is my God and Jesus is my Lord
Posted: Sat Oct 28, 2017 11:46 pm Post subject: Re: deception at FH
Since we are Christians, I would like to talk to you face to face about what is going on at Fisher House since I got kicked out. I got blamed for things that didn’t happen and many people, including you, didn’t seem to care. I’m not interested in fixing blame, but in straightening this out.
Sincerely Yours,
Hitomi Wilde 210-945-0970
PS: I decided to do this because of the cold-hearted way I was treated by staff and volunteers, except for Jack, his wife and Mitzy, when I visited Fisher House.
I was there for less than a year, dedicating many long hours (even on the hot, cold and rainy days). One day around Christmas, it was so cold I couldn’t stay outside for more than 30 minutes. I asked a resident to lend me a pair of thick socks. But he gave me two brand new pairs. He even offered me get me a warm shoes. but I reclined of course.
Many of my time was spent cleaning up around fisher housel because there were many neglected areas. The most neglected area was behind and under the bushes. It was a cesspool of mosquito’s until I trimmed them and kept them clean. This is just a sample of the many things which no one seemed to pay attention too. But, when I saw an area needing cleaning, I cleaned it. Not many people are aware of the work I did, because I worked mostly Holidays, week-ends, and early in the morning when people were not there. Besides most workers are inside and I was always outside.
Many residents and visitors commented about how nice it looked and their encouragement kept me going. Inge didn’t bother to ask me what I was doing, not even once. She, and some of the staff, focused on what they thought I did wrong – not paying attention to what I did right. There were even some false accusations made. So, having said this, I look forward to speaking to you, at your earliest convenience. _________________ YHWH is my God and Jesus is my Lord
I got a bad after taste speaking to you last, It is because you did not say anything about what I was telling you.
I was going to ask you what you thought about what is going on at FH but it slipped my mind.
1)Did you think Inge firing me was fair?
2)Did you think the way I was treated was OK?
It is clear to me that you believe all of Inge's words against me, which is surprising because you should know know how many hours I dedicated to FH.
I believe she handled the whole situation unprofessionally with a begrudging attitude.
It's tragic that I got a dishonorable discharge after all those hours I volunteered.
3)Have you actually looked at the hours I spent there?
4)Do you think you handled this situation fairly and justly as a Christian volunteer coodinator?
I would appreciate an answer to these questions.
sincerely,
Hitomi Wilde, 210-945-0970
PS,
I was hoping you give me some kind of response after our meeting but you did not.
I think you owe me an explanation since I got dishonorable discharge.
It is so disgraceful.
I didn't tell you all the things Inge and her secretary accused me of, and according to them I am a liar.
I am a Christian and have been honest in everything that I do. If I am a dishonest person, my faith is meaningless and I am much worse than non-believers.
Jesus says we know them by their fruit. My diligent hard work should demonstrate the kind of person I am. _________________ YHWH is my God and Jesus is my Lord
I’m writing this because of the bad feelings I got after we spoke last, since you did not say anything about what I was telling you. I was really hoping you would give me some kind of response. I feel I deserve an explanation, since I got a dishonorable discharge.
I didn’t tell you all of the things Inge and her secretary accused me of, and according to them I am a liar. As you know I am a Christian and am honest in everything I do, If I was a dishonest person, my faith would be meaningless and I’d be worse than an unbeliever. Jesus says people will know we are Christians by our fruit. My diligent hard work should demonstrate the kind of person I am.
It is clear to me that you believed Inge’s words against me, which is surprising to me since you know how many hours I dedicated to FH. I believe she handled the situation unprofessionally, with a begrudging attitude. It’s tragic to get a dishonorable discharge after all the hours I volunteered. My husband constantly said one day the General would single me out for recognition for everything I did. I never expected any recognition but certainly not a dishonorable discharge.
And I was going to ask you what you thought about what is going on at FH, but it slipped my mind. These are the questions I should have asked:
1. Did you think Inge firing me was fair?
2. Do you think the way I was treated was OK?
3. Have you actually looked at the hours I spent there?
4. As a Christian volunteer coordinator, do you think you handled this situation fairly? _________________ YHWH is my God and Jesus is my Lord
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